Guest Post by Patricia Marino: Love and The Problem Of Fairness

... The historical common-law conception of love codified the idea that marriage was meant to merge man and woman together into one legal person -- where the woman's rights were subsumed under those of the man and the man took on the obligation of protection.

The problem of fairness thus barely arose: marriage was heterosexual only, and unity in marriage was achieved by simply sacrificing the woman's interest to the man's.

What we need is a theory of love that will not only accommodate, but also help us understand, the delicate interplay between individualistic self-oriented interests and shared collective interests ...